Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Happy Birthday Micah J!






Mikes first Birthday in Heaven! 4/28

We spent the day together. Luke was able to take off work and be with me. It rained most of the day so we decided to go to the cemetery another day. We hope the memorial stone will be in by the end of May.

The party was great on Sunday. It was wonderful to have so many friends and family there, not to mention a ton of kids. Huge thanks to the Sheffers for letting us use their home again. Thank You, Lord for not letting it rain!!! So many people made this day happen. The raffle was too fun. Thank you for all your generous gifts, both financial and all the goodies~ crayons, play dough,uno cards and more! We look forward to going to Childrens on Thursday. It was such a special time for our family~ thanks guys!!

Again a huge thanks to all the companies who gave so generously!!


Thoughts from Luke on Sunday~



First of all, Kriscinda and I cannot express our gratefulness enough to you all for the tremendous way you have cared for our family and continue to care for our family. I have talked with numerous people who tell us they still pray for us every day – this means so much to us - Thank you. Thank you for coming to this party to support us and celebrate Micah’s life with us – and though his life here on earth was short there is much to celebrate – and we also celebrate his new life in heaven.

This month has been very hard for us. We’ve spent quite a bit of time looking through pictures, watching videos, recounting the many wonderful memories we have a our little guy. One of the things that stand out whenever we think about Micah is how cheerful he was even on days when he felt very sick. He greeted each day full of exuberance – I can still vividly recall how would be the first one up in the morning rocking his pack n play back and forth doing his Indian Chant and yelling Gooood Morniiiiiiing! He has taught us so much - through Micah we have learned how to seek the Lord and to fully depend on Him for the strength and comfort we so desperately need and not just during times of trial. We have learned how precious life is, that children truly are a blessing from the Lord. We have also experienced an increased longing for heaven and things of the Lord. As we were going through pictures and video, the hardest ones for us to watch are the ones that reminded us of Micah’s sickness. It is difficult to imagine the hardships he had to endure but we do know that God gave him a special grace as is evidenced by the peace and joy he displayed on a consistent basis. And now our hearts are comforted knowing that Micah is no longer experiencing any pain or suffering and that he is instead right now experiencing the fullness of joy in the presence of our God and Father. And because Christ hung on the cross and suffered in our place for our sin – we too will soon experience the fullness of joy and will weep no more for every tear will be wiped away from our eyes and we will be in our true home with our loving Lord and our precious little boy. That day cannot come soon enough – yet we know God has a plan and a purpose for us for the remaining days we have here and we want to be faithful to continue on, clinging to the hopes and promises we have held so dear. So today we celebrate Micah’s life – grateful for the blessing of those three years, grateful for all that has been accomplished through his life and grateful for all that God will continue to accomplish through his life. Thanks to you Micah we have great desire for Heaven and Home.

pic from 2007- thanks Britt

- this years pics to come

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

1st Annual Micah Memorial B-day Bash

Sunday the 27th will be our 1st Annual Micah Memorial Birthday Bash and we are so looking forward to being together with everyone to celebrate our Micah Man!

This year Luke & I will be holding a raffle at the 1st Annual Micah Memorial Birthday Bash. The benefits will go to some of our fav places (Children's National Medical Center, Make A Wish & Give Kids the World). This year the majority of the proceeds will be given to Children's National Medical Center, specifically the Hematology/ Oncology Unit (where Mikes was) and also Doctor Bear’s Toy Closet (which provides gifts to the children for their Birthday & Christmas, crafts to do, crayons, movies to watch– it makes life at the hospital much better!). This raffle will in a sense be a small memorial to our Micah. A tangible way to remember his amazing little life, a way for us as a family to never forget and to give back what was generously given to us.

Our hope for this year was a small raffle and well it has totally exceeded our expectations. Many companies have given so generously, and therefore we have great prizes to raffle. So here's how our raffle will work: Everyone will recieve one free raffle ticket and then all raffle tickets will be $1.00 per ticket and 12 tickets for $10.00.
I huge thanks to Barbara at Fairfield Inn, I had asked for a good rate for one night and she gave us 2 for free! Also Brian Gruner, who had a vision and contacted most of the companies that we have received gifts from. Please check these businesses out, also next time you are there please thank them for their generosity.

Our Prizes Packages are:

1) J&P Pizza in Damascus - $20
Weis in Damascus - $20
Dogfish Restaurant - $25

2) Brusters- $10, their Ice Cream is Amazing!!!
Safeway in Damascus - $25
Dogfish Restaurant - $25

3) Perceive Photography- Gift Card for a free 30 min family photo shoot

4) Two Night Stay at the Fairfiled Inn, Marriot in Germantown

5) Teeth Whitening by Frank Lewis Family & Cosmetic Dentistry ( $400 value)- 9899 Main St. Suite 200, Damascus MD 20872

6) http://www.iohealth.net/
- 3 half-hour personal training sessions in the winner's home,within 20 miles ($120)
- Initial Fitness Assessment ($75)
- 30 minute informational session to improve nutrition in the home ($75)
Provided by Bob Buchanan of Inside Out Health


We are excited about our raffle yet we are really looking forward to seeing everyone and spending the afternoon remebering and sharing about our Micah. Thanks for making this day so special for us!!

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Encouragment

The other night Luke read me a wonderful hymn, I wanted to share with you~

How firm a foundation

How firm a foundation, ye saints of the Lord,
Is laid for your faith in His excellent Word!
What more can He say than to you He hath said,
You, who unto Jesus for refuge have fled?

In every condition, in sickness, in health;
In poverty’s vale, or abounding in wealth;
At home and abroad, on the land, on the sea,
As thy days may demand, shall thy strength ever be.

Fear not, I am with thee, O be not dismayed,
For I am thy God and will still give thee aid;
I’ll strengthen and help thee, and cause thee to stand
Upheld by My righteous, omnipotent hand.

When through the deep waters I call thee to go,
The rivers of woe shall not thee overflow;
For I will be with thee, thy troubles to bless,
And sanctify to thee thy deepest distress.

When through fiery trials thy pathways shall lie,
My grace, all sufficient, shall be thy supply;
The flame shall not hurt thee; I only design
Thy dross to consume, and thy gold to refine.

Even down to old age all My people shall prove
My sovereign, eternal, unchangeable love;
And when hoary hairs shall their temples adorn,
Like lambs they shall still in My bosom be borne.


The soul that on Jesus has leaned for repose,
I will not, I will not desert to its foes;
That soul, though all hell should endeavor to shake,
I’ll never, no never, no never forsake.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Basketball Star!

Luke has been looking through videos today, deciding which one to post next and well we had Micah Moments. How we miss him! And the videos just bring it all back. What a lil treasure. Oh how I want to treasure Braeton and CC all the more, even the hard times- like tonight after her bath when she covered her face and hair in apple sauce~ bath time again ( I know it wasn't very bright to do bathes before dinner!)
We had a cry and just sat together for a while (this is when CC was doing the apple sauce thing!), then Luke prayed for us. He is so wonderful to hold me and help me, remind my heart of the truth. It was a sorrowful evening for me, for us all. Thank the Lord it is coupled with hope, joy and faith (how could I not laugh at my little girl who has her brothers button nose- with apple sauce up her nose) lest we be overcome with sorrow.
The thought of Heaven and our lil man totally healed brings so much peace and longing, how could I wish his return. No, we will go to him instead! It is at these moments where the cross of Christ grows infinitely bigger in my eyes. Oh, He has paid a way for my eternity. Undeserving and yet saved because of Christ's death. The cross has never been so dear as it has become this year.
I love the song the Glories of Calvary by Steve and Vikki Cook. One line goes... "and your saints above join with your saints below rejoicing in the Risen Lamb". I can just imagine Mikes singing to Jesus above while we are below. My heart is filled with thoughts, with reminders that this world which seems forever is not my true home and one day when my days are complete I will go to another~ the one my heart longs for. Until then there is work to be done~

Thank you for your prayers, I have received emails and just people coming up and sharing that they are praying for us. Thanks for remembering us, our family and our little man!!


Here's another great clip of our Basket ball Star!!

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Note from Nana

I can't seem to get a portion of a song off my mind...so I thought I would look up what the rest of the words were...I copied below the verses that touched my heart when thinking of little man

Precious mem'ries, unseen angels
Sent from somewhere to my soul
How they linger, ever near me
And the sacred past unfold.

CHORUS:Precious mem'ries, how they linger
How they ever flood my soul
In the stillness of the midnight
Precious, sacred scenes unfold...

As I travel on life's pathway
Know not what the years may hold
As I ponder, hope grows fonder
Precious mem'ries flood my soul.

Love you!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

More Details



I love these video clips, I often check my own blog page just to watch them again and again, to look at photos of these precious little ones and recount God's faithfulness through this journey~hope your enjoying them as much as we are.

I have been greatly enjoying planning Micah's lil party. What sweet memories it brings! We are going to have the party at our dear friends and pastors home, Erik & Jerusha Sheffer. For those of you who celebrated with us last year you'll remember I gave out the wrong directions- this year I'll make sure you get the correct ones. The party will beSun, 27th from 1:00-4:00 (as we have a meeting later). We will have snack foods, drinks and cake.

Also Fairfield Inn & Suites in Germantown is generously donating a 2 night stay to be raffled off! The benefits of this will go to Children's Hospital. We are also working on a few other items. Raffle tickets can be purchased for $1.oo per ticket. If any of you have ideas for our small raffle or know someone who wants to donate an item please feel free to contact Luke or I.
As far as gift, just having you share this time with us is a gift enough, but if you would like to bring a small item to donate such as crayons, play dough or Uno cards, Children's is always in need of these.
We are looking forward to spending this special time together as we celebrate Micah's life!


Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Mikes B-day Party

I don't have all the details ironed out yet, it is a last min planning effort. We weren't sure we were going to be able to do something because we didn't know where we would be, but we'd like to~ please feel no obligation it is last min but we wanted you to know we will be doing a party for Mikes probably on Sun , April 27th from 1-4 And we wanted to open it up to everyone, there is so many of you we'd love to see and hear from and try to thanks for all your care.We will probably post a link to evites.com in a day or two.We'd just love to share this special day with ya!Just a heads up... More details soon =)

Monday, April 14, 2008

Video 2

I love this clip of Micah & Cianne, so often the first person he wanted to see in the morning was "Sister." She would lay next to him on the couch and he would just dote over her and give her kisses!

Enjoy the clip of Mikes feeding girlie!



P.S. If you want to share a Micah Moment with us, of something special to you about our lil guy just email us and we'll post it this month.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Micah Man

April 28th is our Micah Man's birthday, so we will be celebrating his grand life this month in special ways. And one way that we will do that is to share video clips of our sweet boy.

Out of the mouth of babies and infants,you have established strength. Ps 8:2
What strength the Lord has established out of Mikes, it continues to amaze and provoke us. If my life accomplishes half of his I believe I may have lived well to glorify our Saviour.

Love you little man, can't wait for that day~ Heaven and Home

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

1st T-Ball Game

Today was a busy day! First a field trip to a Dairy Farm. The farm was well a farm. I thought girlie would love it but most of the time she walked around going...uh while she had her hand at her nose (she doesn't like things that smell bad!). She seemed to enjoy seeing the cows from a distance, running around and eating ice cream. Braet always loves being with his friends but the farm wasn't his fav field trip. The baby cow he was feed spit milk all over him (don't ask how- I have no idea!) and while climbing a fence by the field he managed to get poop on himself and they both fell in the mud!! Showers for sure!!!
Home just in time to head out to his first t-ball game. He loved it! Nana joined us to cheer him on, talk about organized chaos! They were so cute in their little uniforms and Braet hit and fielded pretty well for a rookie! He is also getting to play with his buddy Jack, these two are quite a pair! The boys are on the Red Sox's team and the coach graciously let Braet be #9. Here's a few pics from the game!
Jack & Braeton







Baseball Ready!?



Tuesday, April 8, 2008

A Micah Moment

An Email from a Friend~
I was subbing in Judah (Children's Ministry) on Sunday, and in the Israel/Judah assembly, they were teaching about Stephen and asking the kids for examples of courageous people in their lives. They defined it as doing what you know is right even if you are afraid and it doesn't work out the way you planned. The kids didn't really get it and kept telling stories of people who had passed away. One of the Stoy boys (I think Andrew) said something like, "There was a little boy in this church who went to be with the Lord, and his name was Micah." Then Joshua Quinn chimed in, "Yeah, I know that boy! He was one of my best fwiends!" It was so sweet. Then the teacher interpreted that it took courage for Micah to go to be with the Lord and for these young boys to lose their friend. Just wanted you to know that Micah is often thought of and that his little life made lasting impressions even on our smallest ones. Love you! Mieke

Thursday, April 3, 2008

the Second Bank said.....

YES!
Thanks for all your prayers on our behalf for our hearts and the home we put on offer on. Today that offer has been Accepted!!! =) Yeaaaaa!

Okay there is a but to this and that is.... that is since the second bank took soooo long to decide the first bank has shut our folder. Hopefully all that will need done is a call made to the first bank to re-open the folder and submit our paper work. If everything irons out well the thought is that we should go to settlement at the end of April. We are of course very excited yet a little hesitant, settlement isn't here yet. We still have to get the paper work together, a home inspection and so forth. We would appreciate your continued prayers for our hearts and that the rest of this would go smoothly.

I'm ready to start painting! =) Okay don't get ahead of yourself!

~A Mushy Moment~
Today is also a special day for Luke & I ~ it was this day 8 years ago when my Love and I first talked about our relationship, two days later he asked me to begin a courtship/dating thing with him and it's been wonderful!. What a ride! What a journey, never a dull moment and oh so much grace and mercy!

some random pics ~ thanks Terri for the wonderful photos

CC's hiding her Belly

Braet stuffing Cake